I have started dating this guy who has been pursueing me for a long time, many of his friends know that he has been trying to woo me. He tells his closest friends about me. We decided to give it a go but have not told anyone yet. I was thinking we could announce it to a group of people we hang oit with and he said he doesn't want to let this guy know yt because he spreads around rumours. Then he said is it ok I dont update my fb relationship status? I just feel that it should be between us and a few close friends. Let other people find out themselves.
i find this abit odd of him why doesn't he want to show me off to other ppl? He told me his friends think that I am pretty so isn't it better for him to show that I am attached to him?
Red flag? P. s I dont use facebook.
Most Helpful Guy
First off I am not trying to blast you or him with this but I would like to clear things up for myself a bit. First "He tells his closest friends about me." So why do you care about his facebook? He isn't hiding you or anything. Second "I was thinking we could announce it to a group of people we hang oit with and he said he doesn't want to let this guy know yt because he spreads around rumours" sounds like he is trying to protect you from a known rumor maker which could be on his Facebook as well. Third "why doesn't he want to show me off to other ppl" Maybe he would rather you be his and not for public display. He doesn't see you as arm candy. Forth "P. s I dont use facebook" I am sure he knows this and him telling you he wasn't going to change his FB status even though you probably wouldn't have found out anyway says he really cares about what you think. The only Red Flag I see here is the fact he seems to think very highly of you and is looking out for you. Lastly when you say give it a go, Do you mean BF/GF or just dating?0