This is bothering me more than usual because he is my ex and things are kind of tense I guess because we're talking again. he's the one who initiated it, he started calling during the summer and I wouldn't call back, but I finally gave in. we saw each other and had a really great time (no sex, just some kissing, lots of talking but not about anything serious relationship-wise even though he did ask me if I have a boyfriend). I got freaked out at the end and told him I would call him when I was ready. I called him after about a week and a half, he was about to get on a plane (back here after being gone a few days) so he couldn't really talk, but after I wished him a safe flight he told me he would "hit me up" when he got back. That was Monday night. I don't really know how to feel, I know he has a hectic schedule, but I hate waiting to hear from him. When he saw each other before he told me he liked me, without me having to ask if he did. He lives a pretty alternative lifestyle (busy musician) but I just hate how this makes me feel. I definitely don't want to call him before he calls me, but does this sound like he will? so far since getting back in touch he has kept his word.
- sounds like he'll callVote A
- that might've been a blow offVote B
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if you want to wait for him, but you dont want to write first, i suggest you delete his number
i do that all the time.
i know how you feel... i hate this waiting too... it has to do with guys who rejected me... fear of rejection. No matter how nice or beautiful a girl is, the fear of rejection concerns many girls.
if you want to break this stupid cycle, just text him yourself. if he doesn't want to meet again, delete numbnd forget him. Or try dating other guys at the same time...0