I always was feed the lie that girls will "start noticing" sooner or later. well its hasn't happened yet.
pretty much people are still jerk to me the same way as when I was a kid. no people don't get older and start respecting you. people do become more diplomatic and as get older they find nice ways to insult you without being so blunt.
no women at 28
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Just keep working on yourself and improving yourself. Do not "just be yourself"! Don't be someone else, but instead change who you are. If what you are doing isn't working, then stop doing it! :)
Think of yourself as a product and women as the customers. Your job is to sell yourself to them. If they are not interested, then you need to upgrade the product. The most important thing is to always think of the customer base. What do they want? What are women looking for in a romantic partner?
I've heard way too many guys whine "girls should like me the way I am". Nonsense! That's like a business with a bad product whining "customers should just like my product the way it is... I shouldn't actually have to improve it or even bother learning what my customer even wants in the first place".
Now, I'm not saying that you are a "bad product", but rather I'm just trying to get you to think in those terms. We can all 'upgrade' ourselves and make ourselves better. Just be continually improving yourself.
Hope that helps.1