I am 17 years old. Ever since I was 15 years old I started to be attracted towards girls who were like 13 and 14 years old. This was not a big deal but now I am 17 and half a year away from turning 18. I find little girls cute, pretty and sexy depending on the girl (because 13 year old can be much more sexually developed than most think, they are not babies). I do not plan on raping them or forcing myself onto them so there is no crime here. The thing is that I don't think I will stop liking them just because I turn 18 and to be honest I don't think it's wrong or bad for me to like them.
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"ThatNiceGuy" is on his way to becoming a pedophile. Right now, it's not "that" bad, but it's going to get worse if you don't see a therapist. Sure, there are some young 13, 14yr old girls, even some 12 or 11yr olds, who develop and have grown up bodies. But they're age is still young, and their minds aren't fully developed either. Sexual or romantic interests aren't limited to "how sexy/grown" a person's body is. We have to take into consideration that even if they're body is developed, that their mind may not be. And even if you somehow found the most mature, and physically developed 13yr old, you have to realize age of consent exists for a reason.
People aren't just bodies who if they look "ready" we as adults can take advantage and manipulate. Let pre-teens and teens live their childhood. They may feel "grown" and like the attention of an older man, but think about it, they're still children, don't take that away from them.
As for you, be careful and I'd suggest counseling in a few years if you still have these creepy desires.
Plenty of women your age and older are also sexy. It's not that hard. What about these celebrities? Like Mila Kunis, Shakira, Megan Goode, Beyonce, Emma Watson, Katy Perry, Zoe Saldana, Zooey Deshannel, Sofia Vergara, Lucy Liu. All grown and beautiful and sexy women.0