So when high school started I met this guy off an app (yeah I know) but we've never met, anyway we got to talking and became really serious we skyped every night said I love you, we became a couple and we said we were perfect together and can't wait to get married and it's almost our 1 year anniversary... But i'm in college now and he's still in high school. We talked about it and said I could date someone if I found someone but I really love him... I met this guy close to my school and he's cute but it's different and i'm scared if he asks me to be his girlfriend... I don't know what to do... because I don't want to cheat but I don't want to wait for something that I don't know will even happen... I'm so conflicted and scared on what to do
- Stay with long distance ( had a long relationship with)Vote A
- Go with new guy (just met but he's actually here)Vote B
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I didn't choose either option. I would encourage u to stay in a relationship with someone you havenever seen, because it is hard/impossible to fall in love in that way. Talking to someone online and meeting them and seeing their behaviour in reality is very different, things could change if u see him in person.
As for the new guy, i not sure how different he is from that first guy and what u r looking for in a guy.. to me is know this new guy more and see whether you are really compatible.0