Whenever I post pictures here or anywhere else and ask people will say I'm average, normal or look fine. Some women will claim that they would date me.
Yet in reality no women find me attractive.
I've clicked yes on every single girl that has come up on tinder (even ones who are very unattractive themsevles) and not gotten any matches.
I've messaged hundreds of women on online dating and barely got any replies. No women have messaged me first. And absolutely 0 women have wanted to date me.
Whenever I attempt to approach a woman in real life, whether its at a bar/club or during the day, I get rejected straight away (either they walk away without saying anything, give me a dirty look, tell me they are taken/not interested or just laugh at me).
How can I be average or normal looking? Surely I must be very unattractive for this to occur? Or is this what the average man faces when he tries to get a date/girlfriend?
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well, if you're asking for ratings, it's probably because you don't have a high self esteem as it is.. and most people are actually nice, so they wouldn't want to put you any more down than you already are...
and that aside.. even if they did find you attractive.. i look at it like this...
You go to the store with empty pockets... you look at the stuff and you want mostly everything... If you had money... in you head you think you'd probably buy that... then you come back another day with money!!! do you buy all the stuff you wanted previously? I don't... once I have money I tend to find almost not as appealing as it was when i was broke...
so.. back to this.. you ask someone "am I attractive, would you date me?" they know you're not really asking "them" out.. you just want an answer... so they see you.. think you're not that bad.. sure they'd date you... but they aren't really looking and you're not asking them out.. . so sure!
then you go on this website or in real life... where you actually ask these girls out.. you're there for this sole purpose.. so it's like shopping.. they are there for that same purpose.. with they buy everything they liked? no! they want to see what's best... that one is nice, but I want something else...
do I get my point across? I think I'm bad at explaining :/
Anyway! good luck! :]!!0