I've been talking to and hanging out occasionally with a girl for about a month and a half and today she comes over to talk after a bad night out with a guy friend.
I knew nothing about this guy until she told me today that they were talking for the past two weeks or so. Anyway, we had a good visit. Laughed a little and talked a little about serious stuff.
I had been wanting to tell her that I like her next time I saw here (which is today) and I felt like it would've been disrespectful if I came right out and tried to sweep her off her feet from someone else.
She leaves and I wait a couple hours and text her this:
"Hey, I understand if you don't want to talk after this, but I couldn't tell you while you were here. I felt like it would've been disrespectful... but I like you a lot. Needed to get that off my mind. I'm sure you already knew."
What do you all think? Did a botch it?
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She has A LOT of problems going on from her past and is apparently into guys who are husky and treat women very shitty... since she's so used to it.
I'm the complete opposite. Slim and down to earth... lol.
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Can't really say. These kind of things are best said in person, rather than through text. You could have waited until you met her the next time. It wasn't a big deal. At least, it would have a better option than the risk of botching it up. Now you just have to wait for her response. Nothing much you can do.1