I have gone on lots of dates with many different women, but the thing is a lot of times it's only lasted 2-3 dates tops and there's been a lot I've just had one with. None of them have ever led to relationships.
I feel like I can get a girl initially attracted and some have led to hookups, kissing etc, but somewhere out of nowhere they lose interest and honestly it scares me. It makes me think I'll never understand how a relationship works or will never get married in my life. It's like I'll hit off with someone on the date and they'll say text me, let's meet up again, do this together later on and then it ends.
I'm not trying to sound like one of those guys that says why don't girls like me because I'm nice because I really hate that shit. The thing is I don't know if I'm doing too much or too little to cause girls to lose interest. I felt like if I asked what I did wrong would be a double edged sword. It's like if I do ask, I'll come off as very insecure and non-confident but if I don't, I'll make the same mistake.
Honestly, lack of confidence isn't the issue. And while I try to take responsibility for my actions and not blame women. I wanna do better, but I don't know what my issue is and it's frustrating.
Anyone else ever had this issue?
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We all have streaks like that, man. I find it's because you're trying too hard and you start getting into a self-fulfilling prophesy---girl will not talk to me after first or second date---i'm overly clingy and interested in making sure that doesn't happen---it happens because i was trying to hard to not allow it to happen and so on.
Eventually the streak breaks and you regain your confidence.0
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