I had been talking to his guy I met online for the entire summer. we were counting down the days to finally meeting. Then the first week of college hits and he completely ignores me, as in, deletes me off of all social media and doesn't respond. The next week he messages me and tells me he was just freaked out about getting close to someone. Of course, I forgive him. We finally met and it seemed like it was going good, we were laughing and play wrestling. He keeps taking longer and longer to respond to me though... so am I just another girl or is there something?
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It unfortunately sounds like you are a 'fall back plan' for this guy. The fact that he actually went to the effort of deleting you off of social media is a terrible sign. Being 'freaked out about getting close to someone' is just a line, it's a way of trying to appease a girl by appealing to non-logical emotions.
I think it is very clear that there is not 'something' between you two, at least not from his perspective. Shitty, I suppose, but I feel pretty confident in that assessment given the limited about of info on it.1