we have talked for a month and dated for a month, after the 7 day he texted me like nothing happened i dont know what to do i was mad at him and broke up with him he asked for another chance that he'll do better but i said no. i dont know if i did a right thing or not. should i get back with him?
My boyfriend didn't contact me for 7 days but hung out with his other friends, after he apologized.. I broke up with him. did I do a right thing?
What Guys Said 7
what was his excuse for not textng for 7 days? if this was the only bad thing he did in a month (or 2 ) then you are lucky. unless you know he was fucking other girls or w/e i would have needed more reason than that to end it with a girl. i mean i would still be upset, bt it seemed like you ending it was a heat of the moment thing.
i say give him another chance. i mean me personally i try to talk to a girl everyday. but some times i feel like i should give her space to her self or if anything allow her to start the convo.0
besides not contacting you within 7 days what other reasons did you have for breaking up with him?1
humans need their own space they can't spend 24/7 with the same person all the time. with that said a week isn't that long but he should have at least emailed you to say hi.0
You did a typically immature thing. But you're under 18, so what can you expect?
I'll tell you what not to expect - don't expect the next guy you date to be any different.0
What Girls Said 5
You did the right thing. If you love someone, you put an effort into communicating with them because you miss them and you can't live without them.
My boyfriend and I text each other all day long and we don't give a shit when other people tell us that it's unhealthy or clingy.
Please, don't give him another chance. I doubt that he will change for you. You deserve to be with someone that has everything you are looking for.0
that is clearly not a good enough reason to break up with someone but i will give you an advantage since im going to assume you no older tan 15 maybe just maybe 16 i mean i will be upset but not to the point to break up this is clearly isn't a relationship its puppy love and if i where you i wouldn't have just waited around i would have maybe texted him a few times an called and still no reply i would have put on my big girls panties and keep it moving forward dont let a guy have you behind and wondering keep it moving0
Lol, you seriously broke up with him for that?
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Looking at the other answers, i see that you said that he ended it on a "bad note". That's probably why he didn't contact you for 7 days. I think that because every person is different, every relationship is different. I personally don't think it's necessary to talk every day, however, i do think that not contacting your girlfriend for 7 days is stretching it. I think you were right about breaking up with him. It's going to show him that if he acts like a jerk, then he will lose you. Whether or not you should give him a second chance, i don't know. If you really like him and you do feel like he will try better, then go ahead and give him a second chance. If not, forget him! Good luck!0
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