So I am a shy girl. I am kind and supportive as a gf. I do get attached to guys easily so I get hurt alot. After one date with a guy an 3 weeks went by he said I am not. normal. for texting and calling him to see me again an has a busy job an admitted he hadno time for. me. today. He cut all. contact.
I've dated one nice guy but he was too young to settle so it ended he dumped. me two years ago.
I then dated a guy who tried to say he loved me after 3 weeks an he wanted just sex even thought fingering me meant he took my virginity. He treated me badly an was an ass. Quite narcissistic too.
Then i dated a guy who seemed like sociopath. Out for himself an such a user. Also tried controlling. me. To be honest these guys did mess my head up.
Guy I liked recently I told I love him an he was like wtf you dont know me. I dont know what love is due. to these bad experiences. I really did. like this. guy but he admitted he has no time for anything with me or for me.
I was naive in past but I do feel scared of ending up alone. I get a lot of attention mainly. for sex. I dont meet or come in contact with good men. People say its. my fault but I am a good person who is sensitive. But gets. clingy too soon so guys never stick around long
Longest bf I had was 4 months. People around me are engaged married, moved in with bf or having babies. I really want all that I feel like I am. not. meant to be happy. in love. I am very unlucky in love and its made. me upset tonight as I sit here alone. in bed wondering why guys hate me.
First guy I liked in 8months. No longer talks to me an doesn't wantto know any more about me. I feel so sad like I am not. good enough or lovable. Guys flirt, whistle, ask for my number but majority dont want a gf or me. maybe.
I dont go out. looking for guys or party anymore. I just work and spend time with family. My sis and bro have settled down. I am 21 but already I feel like mr right isn't out there :( I give up
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Don't wear your heart on your sleeve, make a man work for your love and care for him. If you do feel yourself getting too attached too soon, just keep that to yourself and don't act on it and show a guy that your clingy. You need to build some self confidence and independence, I think you need to try and learn not to rely on the attention of a guy to make you feel secure. Then, a guy will be attracted to you because you are you and secure in that, and won't be scared off by quickly becoming clingy. Bad guys won't see you as a vulnerable target then either.1