So, I've been dating this girl for about 5 weeks now and have finally realized or accepted that without a question of a doubt... I love this girl. I can honestly say that over the last 5 weeks I haven't gone more then afew minutes without thinking about her. I love everything about this girl... her personality, her upbeat attitude, and her many flaws.
Now here's the problem... is it too soon to drop the love bomb? The last thing is want to do is scare her away... while I'm happy with how the relationship is going... I just want to stand on the mountain tops and yell it.
If I knew without a shadow of a doubt she would say it back... no problem. However when we first started dating she let me know she's been hurt before and had some commitment issues. Opinions?
Going out with her tonight... will take this advice and run with it, and update tomorrow on how it goes
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Don't say anything just yet, sweetie. Feel tonite out, and perhaps, just for Convo, talk a bit More about how she still feels as far as The Big "C," which is a Commitment, a relationship, and other personal things in which she may want to talk about. However, don't say anything to her of your own feelings.
I believe it is too soon, only a little over a month. You both need to go slow, nurture and nurse what you have started, and knowing already of her past with a partner, should tell you she Could very well grow Cold duck feet and wander quickly back into the murky waters, disappearing or just ending up ruffling a few of her feathers. Things could go South.
And although hard, for you know how you feel and what you want, she in turn may Not, and 'May' need more time to to feel comfy again and more secure once more in a Real relationship.
Perhaps in time she will come out of her shell, begin reaching out and together you will Both hopefully know when it is right to sow your seeds old Mother Nature may have in store for you both to reap real ripe for a romance And----Relationship so right.
Good luck. xx1