Hi I need advice, I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and we've seen a lot of each other up til now, like we'd meet up between 3 and 5 times a week. Anyway this week has been different and I don't know if I'm just reading into it. We met up Wednesday at his place and hooked up but not for the first time and everything seemed fine but since then he's set up plans to meet to go to the cinema twice and cancelled coz he is busy with work, then he set up a meeting with his son but cancelled today because he said his son was ill. I wanna believe him but he seems to have backed off since Wednesday and I don't know if I'm just blowing things out of proportion, for some reason I already knew he was gunna say his son was ill and he couldn't go before he even said it I don't know if I'm worrying too much or if he's blowing me off. What do I do? I'm trying to chill and not read into it but I've been messed about so many times with guys trying to keep me on the sidelines while they find someone else I'm scared it might happen again and I know that's my issue but im still worried
Is he stringing me along? Or am I worrying too much?
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I think it's natural to get doubts sometimes... especially considering your past. You just need to relax cause you are worrying too much. Unless he's given you reason to doubt him before, then it's pointless to sit and stress. If for some reason his mind has changed then it's nothing you have control over either. So you sitting there being worried is counter productive. Take it day by day now and just do as much possible to keep your mind of it.1
that's why its better to set up plans yourself. that way you know whether or not you plan to spend time with him and he just has to say yes or no. no guessing. if he's always making plans you're left completely at the mercy of his whims. if you're a person who is reliable then you ought to be the one making plans., he candles. even of its genuine its still not consistent. so if i was you id make plans. if he's not available there consecutive plans then id move on.
sitting back watching waiting to see if someone is honest or not when you ARE honest is a waste of time. just take control of things and take it from there.
I don't know whats up with him. I don't know him i can't get in his head. I don't know you either but YOU know you. thats all you can control, you. i think its easier than 'talking' bc you're not sure if he's being honest. which means he can lie when you talk. so just plan stuff. icd he's game good if not move on0
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