I'm turning 24 in Dec and have never had a bf, held hands, or even kissed a boy. The last date I went on was 4 years ago and only because I made the move. Let's just say I put myself enough out there to a point where I just gave up looking or hoping anymore. I'm as virgin as a 5 yr old. I have friends in relationships, some married, and even expecting, and here I am, a college graduate working towards my Master's and wondering what it'll be like to kiss a boy. I was never the one guys went for, ever. I don't think I'm ugly, I get those stupid "honks" and guys who have gotten to know me love who I am. I dont get what it takes. I can't feel happy for friends for their marriages, or expecting babies, I just go to bed crying after each news. I hate that they've all had sex and I haven't. The only other person I've met who happened by accident is way older than I am and it would be unrealistic to pursue that relationship. What's wrong with me?
PS: don't tell me "I'm busy with school" bullshit. All my friends are on like me and theyve managed to attract guys and even marry.
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Well... its just a hunch, but are you too attractive for your won good? Most guys are intimidated by extremely attractive women, and they never approach such women because they think she either already has a boyfriend, or she's going to reject them anyway because of them being 'below her league'.1