So I had been dating a guy for 4 months. I was scared to have sex so I waited 3 months. I feared abandonment. We had sex at the 3 month mark. He vanished. I stupidly stayed loyal because I didn't know whats going on. I text him a short text saying I miss him. The next morning he texts back after 3 weeks saying he met someone new... she's amazing and for me to move on.
The reason I am hurt is because he didn't tell me... he vanished for 3 weeks. It happened right after I let my guard down and had sex. I feel foolish feeling so guilty even having another guy try to kiss me but he's off meeting other ppl. I expressed my fears to him and it ALL came true.
I feel like crap. I know it must be me which makes me feel worse.
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Awww. I'm sorry to hear that. You def got played and the fact that he was so quick to meet someone else is confirmation that he had her around all along. You were prayed on by a guy who possibly could've been everything you were looking for. That's how he projects himself to women of course, but you were the challenge because you were hesitant to give it up. It's all a part of the game. You shouldn't feel like crap or ashamed because you had no clue he was a jerk and he's the one missing out on a great girl. Besides, Karma is a best : )0