every says that loves hurt, but i think breakups are tough, i want to breakup with my gf, but its only been 3 days and i dont want to make any stupid decisions so i want to hear from you guys out there with more experience than me.
(btw im having a LDR with her, but it seems that with each day passes, so does our love grow weaker)
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I would break up a long distance at this age. If you have doubts so early you are better walking away now than getting too invested.
I had three boyfriends all relationships lasted three to four months. My first I was in high school and he dumped me. We were both at different camps for most of our relationship so it was more like one month
Second one I was in college my family didn't like things about him and I felt that I should end it so I did. We did not want the same things in life.
Third one was three months over the summer till a few days ago. I had high hopes and he didn't want to break up. It probably could have lasted a long time. But I felt he was not respectful and that he would keep me around for sex and fun for years and never take the next step towards marriage. Considering I will be 24 soon I don't have time to waste with a guy who is nowhere near ready to get engaged or married any time soon and I knew he was not a guy I felt comfortable tying myself to as a boyfriend after a few months. I am glad I called it off before things got ugly.
I also dated a guy on and off for over a year between second and third boyfrkend but that was a big mess and we were never exclusive.0