I'm just curious. I guess because my hubs and I are separating and I'm really looking for reassurance on this. I know it happens but does it take a certain man or is it a maturity thing?
Also, telling up front or do you wait to bring a kid up?
I'm not planning on dating for a while but I just want to be prepared.
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First of all, implicitly insulting men who don't want to date single moms as 'immature' isn't a good idea.
No I wouldn't.
Your best bet is single fathers. In fact I'd be a little suspicious of a non-father that would date a single mom. Either he's not taking the fact that you have a kid seriously, which means either he doesn't see a future with you or he just doesn't care about your child at all. Or he just doesn't have much self esteem or ability to analyze situations. Think about it. If a guy was serious about the fact you have a kid and was happy with it and saw a future with you, why wouldn't he go for a non-mom and have his own kid with her?
Another plus for single dads. They have experience and skill2