I'm a freshman in college, and I asked this girl out to a lunch date today. She hesitated for split second and said "ummm... sure." When I asked her if she's free this week, she said she's very busy this week with tests and papers and she said to just text her about when I want to go (I already had her number because we were partners for a recent project). The problem is, I'm wondering if this "yes" is legitimate or if it was just to be nice.
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unless it was enthusiastic then its probably just to be nice. I hate having to tell a guy no, especially when he keeps at it after multiple excuses. But yes, usually I'll just say I'm busy. over and over and over...0