So i recently went to applebees with one of my best friends Mary her bf and another guy who is gay. After my boyfriend texted me what im doing i told him where i was and who i was with. He started to freak out and said i was on a "date" and that i should never be around a guy because its disrespecting him.
I can't wrap my mind around how i disrespected him for hanging out with my friend, her bf, and a gay guy. Plus i have never cheated on him and i never will. im very much in love with him but it seems as if anytime im with my girlfriends and there's 1 guy he flips and says im on a "date" and disrespecting him and that i dont love him.
I dont see any harm with hanging out with a guy who is taken (and his gf is present) and a gay guy. but my bf says no matter what situation he is in, that i should not be around guys because im in a relationship. Am i wrong for thinking he is making a big deal or are other guys the same way?
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Like that... no, your bf's overreacting. Hanging out like that in a group of friends (where there's mixed genders, and some of your friends are there) is totally acceptable.
Does HE think it's ok for him to hang out with girl friends in the same context? If he answers yes, then he's a hypocrate. A rule of thumb is, if you don't tolerate something from your partner, don't do it yourself. Dos HE think hanging with girls is disrespecting you?
And yes, he's overreacting A LOT. He sounds insecure TBH. the question is why...0