There are several theories and of course I know each situation is individual. But lets say its a friendly break up and you know you care about each other, except you need space to eventually be able to become platonic friends.
First of all, is it even possible to be friends ever?
Do you ever really get over each other?
What do guys feel during the "no contact" phase
Do guys miss the girl?
Is it true that they sometimes realise what they lost?
Or do you just get over each other?
Also, how come guys usually contact you again somewhere down the road?
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i have been in no contact but it was in no way a friendly break up. If it hurt? Yes it did. If it helped me get over the girl faster? Have no idea. I survived it? Yes i did. Did i miss the girl? Sometimes more, sometimes did not have the time to miss her, sometimes had other things and people around that were more important.
If i think i could be friends with her? Why bother?
Get over each other? Don't know. Haven't met her since. I sometimes had the feeling it's her i see in the street, when in fact it was other people. My heart did start to beat a little faster, have to admit. It's been just a few months, don't know if over the years, things will be different.
Why guys contact you sometimes down the road? i personally have never done that. I just don't bother to do it. i mean, it ended and i plan to leave it that way.
Realize what i've lost? unfortunately everyone is replaceable. I appreciate the girl i was with and her personality and whatever, but i don't stress too much about it. I prefer to keep it balanced: don't get bitter with the other person, don't pretend like i'm not hurt, don't get overly emotional and kill myself. It just happened, take the pain, let it settle and see what happens tomorrow.1
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