I got to know this guy and he made it pretty clear he's in a relationship. I'm single and I didn't think anything at first except that I enjoyed hanging out with him and we had lots of fun. Now things have changed. He said to me I'm everything he has ever dreamed of, and I feel the same way. However he says he can't leave his long-term girlfriend right now so he's asking me to be patient and us to figure out how things are going between us. Somehow this feels really wrong and I'm afraid he's gonna choose his girlfriend over me eventually. But I have never met anyone like him and I'm so happy with him! What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Keep your distance until he leaves the other girl, or she dumps him for being insincere.
Your feelings are correct that this is wrong.
If he wanted you, he would dump her TODAY , so he could be with you.
There is no middle ground.
I did what he is doing once, and it was not right to either girl.1
Most Helpful Girl
The way I see this, sweetie is, he is having his sweet cake and eating it too. He is telling you 'Sweet' Somethings then Nothings in your ear, stringing you along with his song because he Probably Does find you 'Everything he has ever dreamed of.' However, for he is taken and most likely as well will Never leave her, will End up doing what he Feels will satisfy his hunger and make his own dreams come True----Cheat on her with you. I am seeing the signs and it doesn't have to be etched in stone to see what is going on here. And with 'Cheating' on her, he is Cheating you as well... Just like he is dancing to the tune to you now.
I know I could talk to you until I am blue in the face, but I feel your heart, feel your elation and with this, can 'Feel' you are wearing your poor vulnerable heart on your sleeve. I also Feel that when the music stops, he is going end up ripping it off and breaking it in two, staying with the One half Only, and Not The True Blue one which is You.
You deserve better... I am not here to hurt you, I care enough because I don't want to see you get hurt.
Good luck, God bless. xx0
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