I feel a man is only worth to be with a woman if he has a job, regardless of how much it pays. A woman that's worth it may say it's okay, just keep trying at first. However, just because it's hard to find a job won't cut it let's say in 6 months or a year. Eventually, the woman will get tired of the guy struggling to find a job. Also, men who are currently unemployed will have that in the back of his mind before he approaches women. His confidence will definitely take a hit. So my question is, is it better for men to make sure he finds a job first before even getting potential dates?
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I wouldn't want an unemployed man approaching me. for what? he needs to get his priorities right. instead of worrying about dates and sex, how about worry how your bills will get paid.
and why say "a woman whos worth it" might date an unemployed man, as if women who aren't worth it will reject him. ask yourself why a woman should date a guy who has no source of employment? who will pay for the dates? can he even afford it? shouldn't he be pounding pavements looking for work? what if she has a job and doesn't want a man who doesn't work. I mean yeah its hard to find a job but if you don't have one that's what you need to be worried about1