This isn't a question, but hopefully a semiencouraging story to other people like me. I just asked out a girl in one of my classes to lunch or coffee and got told no. Did that part suck? Ya, but I still feel fantastic. For the first time in about 3 years in college I asked a girl out. Rejection sucks, but the pride in having the courage to ask outweighs the feeling immensely. I'm going to get right back on the saddle and ask out another girl from another one of my classes next week. This is highly uncharacteristic of me, but I feel like now that I've done it once a huge weight has been lifted. Good luck guys!
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Great job! If we never asked, we'd never know. And even if the answer is no, it's better to kill an obsession than to keep mulling over something hopeless.
Not to mention that once we get over the initial nervousness of it all, we get more confident asking girls out and girls like that.1