I've started seeing this guy and he LOVES beer, I can't drink beer because I was sexually assaulted while I was drunk on beer and it causes flashbacks now... I feel like he deserves to know, but when do I tell him? should I even tell him?
- Tell him soonVote A
- Wait till things get seriousVote B
- Don't tell him unless you absolutly have toVote C
- OtherVote D
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think you have to tell him the whole story, especially if it brings up bad memories for you. Just tell him you don't drink, I don't believe you owe him an explanation. I don't drink at all and have been with females who drink and I just tell them its ok if you drink but I don't drink. Don't think I have to tell them all the reasons why.1