Okay so here it is girls (and yes guys also). What if you met this really nice guy. This is at a college level meaning you and him are college students. He's very smart and loves to play tennis, skate and has interest in music. He wants to become an engineer, he is a junior in college. He is your best friend. He was there for you through family lost and breakups. He would compliment you and he would care for you. He makes efforts to be with you because well, he's your best friend. He has an amazing personality in which he is very nice to others, cares for you and will help in anyway he could. He is very mature for his age as he is 21. He buys everything when it comes to movies and dinner (Occasionally like birthdays, but not often when you guys hang). You guys are very close and you trust each other when it comes to secrets. When you guys fight, it hurts you that he may leave. And no matter what happens, you will fight for him to stay with you in his life because HE WAS THE FIRST GUY to actually care for your well being. You guys talk everyday and you make sure he is alive and well. But what if one day, he said you both have been doing things such as a couples do (Movies, dinner, gifts, hanging, traveling together) and he asked if you could give him a chance for to date you. Would You? I mean he proves it everyday he cares for you and he has never hurt you before because he thinks you are perfect. He knows it will work out because you both like to handle things soon and very effectively. And not once, did you guys fight or got mad at each other while you guys are friends.
But there is one problem, you aren't attracted to him, but he is everything you want in a relationship. But you just don't find him attractive. WOULD you date him still because the personality is perfect for you?
On a side note, can you all please elaborate on a few things. No matter how great of a guy he is, would you still date him even if that attraction isn't there?
- Yes, I would date him (Despite attraction, personality first)Vote A
- No, I would not date him (Attraction first, then personality)Vote B