I've been told all my life that the guy should ask the girl out. But that was all stories and girl's opinion. Is it okay to ask the guy out?
I've been having the huge war about this topic in head but every time I've asked, it's "The guy should ask the girl out."
I'm just trying to figure this out.
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I HATE when I hear that. It is old time stupidity and it ruins the chance of many happy unions.
I decided to just take a break from dating. my divorce was this past January. Not something I wanted. I dated a bit. But I have major trust issues with women since my ex wife, someone I was with 25 yrs, cheated on me at least the last 2 years of our marriage, maybe a lot more. So trying to understand how someone stays with you 25 years and never loves you..
anyway, if the woman makes the first move at least I can have some trust that she is really interested. So I decided I will only date if the woman makes the first move. she has to contact me first. I have had a few do that.
So stop believing this 50's era bullshit and go after him if your really interested. because he may never approach you if you wait for him.0