is it really any point of dating or being in a relationship? Most of them end anyway, and both or one of the parts will get hurt. So why not just not date and not feel like crap when it ends? Yeah it may be great when it lasts, but at some point one will get hurt in the end.
I understand that some people want the sex part, but why not just casual sex? I'm not judging or hating, but i'm curious why people want to be in a relationship when they know deep down that its not going to last?
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It depends on what you want from a relationship and what you expect. I don't see it as pointless even though I am very cautious and rarely choose to ask a girl out. Every relationship is preparation for marriage in my eyes even if it ends badly.
I desire a partner who is compatible with me and willing to be my best friend in life. I also desire children so it definitely isn't pointless in that regard. Dating helps a person to find out what type of person they can be happy with.
It doesn't have to be bitter, drama filled, and bad when it ends all the time. Just take a mature, adult, and intelligent approach to it. Make sure to take a "self-check" every so often and not get too caught up on a person. People often move "too fast" and it causes them problems.0