I'm going to be honest, and I expect brutally honest answers.
I am a 24 year old female who has had 2 guys in my entire life show ANY sort of sexual attraction towards me. Those 2 guys have lost interest in me after 6 months. I'm not sure why I couldn't keep their interest, but my theory is that it's because I was showing too much interest.. if that's possible?
Physically- I am a bit overweight. I am not hideous, but I usually don't wear makeup or dress up. I wear a tank top, cardigan, and jeans all the time. When I dress up, I think I look pretty hot. My weight isn't a huge issue. It's the sort of weight where you can't call me skinny, but I'm not fat enough for it to be a turn off.
I am funny, very approachable, and sweet towards everyone. Whenever I'm out with friends, my friends get hit on and I get ignored. I joke around a lot, because that's just how I am. I like to have fun and not be uptight. Some people find that annoying. I have ZERO self-confidence, and I'm not sure if guys can pick up on it, but my friend is the same way as me, but she's doing fine in the dating scene.
But seriously, its like I have this shield that repels guys, and I can't figure it out. My friends tell me to try to look nicer, so I did. I STILL don't get hit on. Help me figure this out. What can I do to attract more attention without acting like a hooker?
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I don't think your confidence is an issue because the guys aren't very confident either!. In the same boat as you, guys would flirt with but nothing sincere. I think you are just at the wrong place at the wrong time. Maybe find a decent place to date besides bars and all that, and try opening up your feelings in a way he can understand.
Find some common grounds with someone and tell yourself you are sexy no matter what! :)1