listen to me. literally fuck white girls so hard. they are the worst of the girls. date black girls ok? any black girl that doesn't like black boys is full of internalized racism. you are not worthless black people are what makes the world go round. why would you even want a white girl? they age like old ass jack o lanterns in the October sun. you're great and being black is great. try your hardest to get to a good college or city with a decent amount of people of color instead of nasty crackers or racist girls. love yourself.
Maybe you need to travel outside of your "type" for a bit. I've noticed a lot of people have issues attracting those who are their type, and from then on they think everyone of the same skin tone, or gender is the same way. Have you tried traveling outside your type? What you need is different than what you want dude.
Maybe they won't date you because you hate them? I am personally more attracted to black guys in general than I am to others. You should talk to your friends or family about how you feel and how you're cutting yourself. Being depressed isn't a weakness; you can even talk to counsellors without your friends or family finding out if it would make you more comfortable. Talking to someone would help relieve some of the pain/stress/pressure you're feeling.
Maybe your just over thinking it. Statistics really don't mean anything. Seems like you think about this often and it holds you back. Our thoughts hold us down at times. I thought I would never get to sleep with this one chick because she was way out of my league but because I thought that even when we shared a bed iv didn't try anything and it turns out she wanted it like I did but my thoughts held me back for many months.
If they don't like you, then don't worry about them. Effort is just totally wasted when you go after or obsess over girls that don't like you. I'm sure you realize how much energy goes into hating someone... It just makes you feel even more like shit. College should be better and give you a better view of the people out there. If you start fucking up your arms with scars you will definitely limit your dating outside of high school, so please consider that when you cut.
Are you 100% sure your not getting girls because your black? Can you name any specific examples of someone rejecting you because your black? How many girls have you asked out?
Because Im thinking maybe your the problem, not your skin, not everybody else, you.
Um, I met some girl I was kind of interested in that only dated white blonde, blue eyed guys, and knew some other girl that I was really into that canceled our date and dated some white guy.
In my opinion, the black guys who I've pursued for a relationship have pushed for sex or sexual actions, or have cheated on me. After a while, a black lady gets tired, everyone gets tired of the same old. Plus with black boys seeing black men with money being on a basketball team or being a gangster is not molding them to be anybody I would like to date. I don't want most guys to want to be obsessed with ball or drugs... So I started dating a white guy and now I couldn't be happier. Sure not every black guy is like that but it sure is hard finding one who isn't
I've dated a black guy :) I like them, I think Im still in love with the one I dated... If they dont date black guys then they might be racist... i use to cut too... Also that sucks! I dont see why you shouldn't get a girlfriend? And look I know those girls might have been horrible to you but please dont generalise white girls like that :( Im white and I like black guys, race doesn't matter to me :(
I'm black but my skintone is brown and my preference is white guys, cuz I've dated white guys my intire life. Never had a thing for black men. I'd rather date outside my race. I've had black guys like me and wanted me to be their girl but, I only wanted to be their friend. I have always had a thing for white guys. just something about them. My boyfriend is white and we have been together for 3 years. my step dad tried to get me to be with a black dude but I said "hell no" I'm not racist or anything it's just I don't have any interest in black men. My mother liked black guys but I didn't. I've had a few black men try to r*** me and my step dad would groom me for sex. so it made me not want to be with a black guy. I couldn't trust any.
I dated a black man, and honestly he was the sweetest, kindest, and greatest guy I have dated - however, we wanted different things in life. He has a child, I don't. I want at least one or two of my own, he doesn't want anymore. It just didn't work out. IF we had wanted the same thing (as we saw eye to eye on most things), we probably would be together, maybe even married. (Oh and I am a white girl).
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I think that's an American thing, here just about all girls love black guys or mixed black guys. But the black guys here though generally ( not all ) like white girls arab girls and pakistani/Indian girls but I notice the black girls get a bit pissed/protective over them so girls kind of hold back on dating a black guy if they don't know him socially. Well it's like that in my social circle
Well, it's different where I live, either way, all the girls I know are either taken, mean, slutty, or already rejected me anyway, and yes, I do hate them too.
I think your just angry at the moment just because you have met a few nobs doesn't mean all girls are the same, you'll eventually meet normal humans lol. And worst comes to worst just move to England you will get plenty of girls
What seriously don't cut yourself :( And where I live l see loads of white girls dating black guys Plus I had a mad crush on a black guy once I find black guys just as attractive as other races , And if it makes you feel better I'm 19 and I've never really dated anyone so you'll definitely find someone soon
I freaken love black guys. And please don't self harm. Not everyone has the best HS dating experience. I sure didn't. And don't let shallow girls get to you. You will find the girl for you.
Are you kidding me? My best friend was black. My other guy friend is black. I find Lenny Kravitz and Will Smith both very attractive and incredible people. Please don't generalize.
Well I am a black girl and the reason I don't date black guys is because they tend to be jerks and by the way I am 14 and I have been watching the p*rn since I was 10 and watching black guys and there sizes made me scared so that is why I don't like them. Message me if you wanna talk more
Way to generalize and stereotype your own race. Guess you can't get mad at white folks for not wanting to date you for being a "ghetto ratchet obnoxious bitch", huh?
I actually have a white boyfriend so speak for yourself lzzex3. And to the owner of the question I don't hate my own people, I go to an all girl school and all black and mexican school. The all boy school is full of man-whores. I have dated at least two guys that go there and after elementary and we broke up the guys aren't virgins, and they have dated half the girls that go to my school
Not all actually. I am from east Asia I find some black guys really attractive.. colour is not a big issue for me.. I think his personality will matters most to me :) plus I have seen many white girls dating black guys!! So don't think like that!!
What is this? I love chocolate and I am white (actually almost a ghost haha)
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I think non black girls know that some black guys obsess over them and they probably are so use To it that they can smell it from a mile away and some find it a turn off because they date their own race or want a guy who likes them for them for not lust or being non black
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listen to me. literally fuck white girls so hard. they are the worst of the girls. date black girls ok? any black girl that doesn't like black boys is full of internalized racism. you are not worthless black people are what makes the world go round. why would you even want a white girl? they age like old ass jack o lanterns in the October sun. you're great and being black is great. try your hardest to get to a good college or city with a decent amount of people of color instead of nasty crackers or racist girls. love yourself.
Maybe you need to travel outside of your "type" for a bit. I've noticed a lot of people have issues attracting those who are their type, and from then on they think everyone of the same skin tone, or gender is the same way. Have you tried traveling outside your type? What you need is different than what you want dude.
I've tried dating girls I'm not attracted to, usually they just wind up being hurt, naturally, pretty bad advice, tbh
Maybe they won't date you because you hate them? I am personally more attracted to black guys in general than I am to others.
You should talk to your friends or family about how you feel and how you're cutting yourself. Being depressed isn't a weakness; you can even talk to counsellors without your friends or family finding out if it would make you more comfortable. Talking to someone would help relieve some of the pain/stress/pressure you're feeling.
Well, I don't hate without reason. My depression, well, I'm convinced my therapist only cares about my money.
Maybe your just over thinking it. Statistics really don't mean anything. Seems like you think about this often and it holds you back. Our thoughts hold us down at times.
I thought I would never get to sleep with this one chick because she was way out of my league but because I thought that even when we shared a bed iv didn't try anything and it turns out she wanted it like I did but my thoughts held me back for many months.
Yeah, well, that's not me, I'm a loser, no same woman could want me.
If they don't like you, then don't worry about them. Effort is just totally wasted when you go after or obsess over girls that don't like you. I'm sure you realize how much energy goes into hating someone... It just makes you feel even more like shit. College should be better and give you a better view of the people out there. If you start fucking up your arms with scars you will definitely limit your dating outside of high school, so please consider that when you cut.
I know, I cut out of stress, and college is so far away, so many of the people here are scumbags.
Are you 100% sure your not getting girls because your black? Can you name any specific examples of someone rejecting you because your black? How many girls have you asked out?
Because Im thinking maybe your the problem, not your skin, not everybody else, you.
Um, I met some girl I was kind of interested in that only dated white blonde, blue eyed guys, and knew some other girl that I was really into that canceled our date and dated some white guy.
In my opinion, the black guys who I've pursued for a relationship have pushed for sex or sexual actions, or have cheated on me. After a while, a black lady gets tired, everyone gets tired of the same old. Plus with black boys seeing black men with money being on a basketball team or being a gangster is not molding them to be anybody I would like to date. I don't want most guys to want to be obsessed with ball or drugs... So I started dating a white guy and now I couldn't be happier. Sure not every black guy is like that but it sure is hard finding one who isn't
I've dated a black guy :) I like them, I think Im still in love with the one I dated... If they dont date black guys then they might be racist... i use to cut too... Also that sucks! I dont see why you shouldn't get a girlfriend? And look I know those girls might have been horrible to you but please dont generalise white girls like that :( Im white and I like black guys, race doesn't matter to me :(
Oh okay.
I'm black but my skintone is brown and my preference is white guys, cuz I've dated white guys my intire life. Never had a thing for black men. I'd rather date outside my race. I've had black guys like me and wanted me to be their girl but, I only wanted to be their friend. I have always had a thing for white guys. just something about them. My boyfriend is white and we have been together for 3 years. my step dad tried to get me to be with a black dude but I said "hell no" I'm not racist or anything it's just I don't have any interest in black men. My mother liked black guys but I didn't. I've had a few black men try to r*** me and my step dad would groom me for sex. so it made me not want to be with a black guy. I couldn't trust any.
Okay
Uhh no dude i love black guys. Im going to get married to a black. guy & have beautiful mixed babies & no ones going to fucken stop me lol
"have beautiful mixed babies & no ones going to fucken stop me lol"
Holy shit that's creepy as fuck O. o
Ommgggg same Im gonna marry a black guy & were gonna have the cutest babies
future single mom with adis lol
I dated a black man, and honestly he was the sweetest, kindest, and greatest guy I have dated - however, we wanted different things in life. He has a child, I don't. I want at least one or two of my own, he doesn't want anymore. It just didn't work out. IF we had wanted the same thing (as we saw eye to eye on most things), we probably would be together, maybe even married. (Oh and I am a white girl).
I think that's an American thing, here just about all girls love black guys or mixed black guys.
But the black guys here though generally ( not all ) like white girls arab girls and pakistani/Indian girls but I notice the black girls get a bit pissed/protective over them so girls kind of hold back on dating a black guy if they don't know him socially. Well it's like that in my social circle
Well, it's different where I live, either way, all the girls I know are either taken, mean, slutty, or already rejected me anyway, and yes, I do hate them too.
I think your just angry at the moment just because you have met a few nobs doesn't mean all girls are the same, you'll eventually meet normal humans lol. And worst comes to worst just move to England you will get plenty of girls
What seriously don't cut yourself :(
And where I live l see loads of white girls dating black guys
Plus I had a mad crush on a black guy once
I find black guys just as attractive as other races ,
And if it makes you feel better I'm 19 and I've never really dated anyone so you'll definitely find someone soon
I freaken love black guys. And please don't self harm. Not everyone has the best HS dating experience. I sure didn't. And don't let shallow girls get to you. You will find the girl for you.
Maybe, I just can't wait until it's over, I hate high school, and I hate all the people I know.
I am currently dating a black guy and have always been attracted to black guys
Are you kidding me? My best friend was black. My other guy friend is black. I find Lenny Kravitz and Will Smith both very attractive and incredible people. Please don't generalize.
Yeah, well Lenny Kravitz is about my skin tone, so I'm still right.
Well I am a black girl and the reason I don't date black guys is because they tend to be jerks and by the way I am 14 and I have been watching the p*rn since I was 10 and watching black guys and there sizes made me scared so that is why I don't like them. Message me if you wanna talk more
wow, your a girl and u started watching before i did.
So you hate your own people? Wow.
Way to generalize and stereotype your own race.
Guess you can't get mad at white folks for not wanting to date you for being a "ghetto ratchet obnoxious bitch", huh?
Good one Lzzex3
I actually have a white boyfriend so speak for yourself lzzex3. And to the owner of the question I don't hate my own people, I go to an all girl school and all black and mexican school. The all boy school is full of man-whores. I have dated at least two guys that go there and after elementary and we broke up the guys aren't virgins, and they have dated half the girls that go to my school
Not all actually. I am from east Asia I find some black guys really attractive.. colour is not a big issue for me.. I think his personality will matters most to me :) plus I have seen many white girls dating black guys!! So don't think like that!!
Yeah, but, you're in college, I'm stuck in some shitty high school.
What is this? I love chocolate and I am white (actually almost a ghost haha)
I think non black girls know that some black guys obsess over them and they probably are so use To it that they can smell it from a mile away and some find it a turn off because they date their own race or want a guy who likes them for them for not lust or being non black