She met him on a cruise over the summer while we were dating and they found out they were gonna go to the same college together. He told her on the cruise that if she didn't have a boyfriend then he would kiss her right then. He said that was too bad that she had one and that he couldn't do that. He wants to hang out with her all the time. Going to clubs and going out to eat and stuff like that,. What should I do? Should I allow her to hang out with him or not? She would never cheat on me. She is a VERY honest person and she tells me all the time that she wants to be with me and me only. I am 3 hours away now that we are both at our colleges and she is down there with him hanging out all the time. What should I do about it? I don't feel like I can trust him!
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The same thing happened to me, except I live with my boyfriend. I wanted to have some guy friends and I met one and we went out to dinner and it was really harmless for me. But for the other guy, not so much and my boyfriend could sence that he did not just want to be my friend, he was trying to move in on me sort of speak. It didn't take me long to realize what he was doing, and the didn't want to just be my friend. My boyfriend hated the idea of me going and hanging with this guy, but he let me because he trusted me. If your girlfriend is honest, you have nothing to worry about, and soon she will figure out if the situation is a healthy one :)0