How long does a first relationship between 2 friends last?

I met this girl a few months ago. I fell head over heels for her, but she didn't want to date me, she gave me a chance every now and then. I was too needy and incompetent back then, but now I'm OK and cool. I've met many other girls since then, but I never felt this way about any one of them. Last week she told me her friend of 3 years has expressed feelings for her, and she feels the same way about him. They are also coworkers at a research lab.

She has never had a boyfriend before, and I believe she's a virgin at 21.
People who have had more experience with relationships than I've had,

How long do you think this will last?
Would I ever have a chance with her?
How can I forget about her? I've been crying for a week, this might be too painful for me to handle.

I'm not shy, I go out and meet a bunch of girls everyday, but it's not helping.


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  • She wants someone else. She doesn't want you and she never will. Move on


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