I have been going to physical therapy for my knee for 3 months and feel like I've connected well with her. Our conversations are long and never about the therapy.. I have a few more visits to go and even tho someone suggested I talk to her on the last day I really don't see an opportunity for that and feel like it could be very awkward. I was thinking messaging her on fbook just about something random we have talked about in our conversations but I am thinking that could come off as creepy. I feel like based on our conversations that if I was at any other place than there I could talk to her without a problem but since it is her job I don't want to put her in a position especially if I am wrong about our connection... So would it be strange to message her on facebook? we are not friends on there... Thanks for any suggestions/comments
Contacting a girl I met at physical therapy on Facebook. Would it be extremely weird? She works there... Read Further?
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So first off Facebook has an “other” folder for people that aren’t on your friends list. Those messages go into a separate spot and a lot of people assume they are spam and don’t check them. Second it could possibly come off as a little creepy that you looked her up on Facebook without mentioning it first.
I am not sure what your connection is on/conversations are about but you could totally keep it casual and bring it up to her. Like if it’s a band your talking about or music, just say, “Oh if you’re into them I have a couple of songs/bands that you might be interested in as well. Do you have a Facebook, cause I could send them to you on there?”
Then it’s casual/friendly. You won’t creep her out by messaging her and you could probably also add her as a friend at that point.0
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