I hope I can get an opinion from the ladies. Girls tell me I am funny and handsome. I'm blond, 6.1 and I would say athletic body type. I am happy with myself when I look in the mirror but I could never compete with Brad Pitt. I have a good 9 to 5 job. Good friends. So all things seems to be fine in my life.
When I talk to girls everything is great. I can easily talk to people in general. And sometimes you meet a special girl. It looks like there is chemistry there. Even my female friends & family members tell me so. And sometimes even her friends tell me so. But if I ask them out they say yes but they just don't show up without calling. Or when I meet a girl and make a Facebook friend request with her with her consent doing it using my phone while she is there they will not accept my friend connection. Whatever it is time after time there is always something to stand in my way.
I'm really depressed. I never can go out on a date. I do hear from some girls that they think I am a player but I am actually a serious guy. This has been going on for years now and it is getting too much to take. I do not dare to hope anymore because my hopes will get crushed. And that makes me more depressed. I'm in my late twenties and my last date has been years ago. I feel like I am cursed. I don't know what I am doing wrong.
I have now officially dated. I don't thhink the lady and I will have a romantic future together but I thhink there will be a friendship.
The most important thing is that I feel that cycle of bad luck has been broken. So I am happy.
I thank you all
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Aww you seem like a nice guy. Maybe you have been chasing after girls who are snobby or maybe you try to get with them before getting to know them. For ex this guy started liking me 1 day and I was like no way he isn't my type (I'm known to date handsome, tall Athletic) total opposite but he was really trying he wld bring me flowers be super nice and my friends would say just give him a chance he's really trying and so I did.. now I'm head over heels for him. So never give up that guy took the time to win my heart rather than jump into the relationship. I'm in my late twenties too and didn't date at 1 point for a yr as well so dnt give up. Think of what you've done in the past to approach girls and see what you can do diffrently right it down if it helps0