Thisn girl has flirted with me for a year and I shared my feelings. We were both to shy to contact each other and now we live tokegther in the firms and she blew my phone really and wants to meet up. Issue she's busy with her management position at her job and working 60 hours on 40 and is a premed major. I hardly see her and she keeps telling me she will find time but I'm done and I need to get the point across with out sounding too mean. She a nice girl and I like her bit I'm not waiting for her.
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How long has she had that behaviour?, if 6 months haven't passed since she started to act like this, then be patient, if 6 months or more have passed, then read what it is below (6 months can pass very fast).
This is what you need to do: be honest with her, tell her what you think and feel about her (that she is a great and very kind girl, that you like her), that you really appreciate and respect that she is a woman with professional goals and aspirations, but it seems that it is difficult to her to manage her time between your relationship and her work and you cannot wait her forever, that you need to continue with your life even if that means without her.
Tell her with no hard feelings that you release her ("I release you"), with the intention of not ruining her job, her aspirations and her life, a prove that you love her. Stay in your decision no matter things they get, don't give her any more chances.
BTW, do you also have personal aspirations?0