This boy I think I like said he likes me however he was just recently in an intimate relationship with another girl who cheated on him. I think I really like him, and would like to start dating but I'm afraid the only reason he wants to date me is to make his ex jealous, or as a rebound and I don't know what I should do. Plus his ex girlfriends the same age as him but I'm 4 1/2 years younger my mothers fine with it because I'm almost 17 so long as I don't do anything stupid but I don't want to date him if he doesn't really like me and I'm scared his feelings are fake what should I do?
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It depends on how long he has been in a relationship for... cuz if it was for a few years and they slept together n she cheated - this means that he is using you as a rebound ! DO NOT go with him right away. Stay in contact with him.. you know here n there but dont date him for at least few months because depending on the intensity of the relationship, it would take longer for him to let go, so there is a higher chance that he can't just start liking you all of a sudden after he got cheated on ! You also have to observe if he does anything special for you or not cuz if he is just taking it all casual n stuff and just being like" i like you", then neh, not worth it. And just a warning, once a guy gets cheated on , his insecurity wall starts building. He'll always keep an eye on you since the trust factor was crushed by his ex and he would get jealous if other guys talked to you, even if they are just your friends. If you are nice to other guys , he will be like "oh shit, she is about to cheat too. Lets just dump her before she leaves me" . That s how they are. NEVER EVER go out with a guy who has been cheated on before. JUST DONT but if you still wanna give this a shot, wait for it n watch his behaviour. If he is giving you troubles like : oh dont talk to him, dont do this or that" - LEAVE !!0
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