what do gay people think about "straight women turning lesbian"? I have heard and said a lot of times that "i wish i was lesbian" and to some extent i actually mean it. It would be so much easier to date a girl! Anyway, what do especially lesbians or bi girls think about straight girls either dating or hooking up with gay women? My sister is gay, and i dont think she would be happy if i started dating women lol
So do you think its stupid or do you think its hot? Would you date a straight girl if she was the one to suggest it?
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Well, obviously if a woman agrees to date a gay woman, she is not straight. She may have been identifying as straight, but she isn't. But the appeal for a lesbian to date a 'previously straight' woman is the exact same as gay men going after 'straight guys'. And having been in the role of a straight guy going to a gay bar with gay friends, it is like being a frickin' beacon.
What I think is happening is similar to how a lot of guys like to go after virgins. And I don't mean the guys that are virgins themselves, doing it for religious reasons. Some people just like to be 'the first'. Look at how many people will just go and post 'first' on a forum thread, just to plant a flag? Being the first, especially in a sexual situation, gives you complete control over how things go. The other person will usually be tentative, unsure, not know what is 'normal' and what is a personal kink.
So it is a bit of "I'm like the Christopher Columbus of lesbians" mixed with the "She will ALWAYS remember me, because I'm her first lady" mixed with "I get to call the shots here".
Definitely not just a woman thing though, as a lot of gay men are all over this idea.1