I asked a girl out ages ago, she said she didn't want a boyfriend, I understood and just ignored her. Now 1 and a bit years later she sent her friend to speak to me to find out if I was single. How do I know? I asked her friend and she confessed telling me the girl really likes me and always has done.
Fine. Whatever. That's cool, so I told her friend that if she wanted me she'd have to come and get me, her friend says that girls don't approach guys like this and I told her friend to tell her friend to find someone else.
She believes I am being unreasonable and blockheaded.
Am I really being unreasonable and when will women get it into their skulls that male pride doesn't allow for a guy to ask a woman out twice?
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well you have to be careful going through her 'friend' because her friend may either like you or hate you. either way she might not be giving you the whole story and might be trying to ruin your chances. if you really like this girl, stop playing games and just drop your pride and talk with her directly. Either she will want to date you or not. But getting the third girl out of the loop would be good for everyone. If you keep your pride and continue like this, how will you feel if she decides to hook up with your best friend and start dating him and they become serious and get married and have kids some day?0