I recently hung out with some friends and my one buddy Bobby invited his guy friend Nick. As soon as I saw Nick my eyes started to light up. He was very handsome and nice. We were talking and stuff and he was very flirtatious the whole night. We even exchanged numbers. He told my friend that he thought I was so sexy. He was such a nice guy and I liked his personality. I thought I hit the jackpot. But later that night when everyone went home my friend Bobby told me that Nick has a girlfriend. I told him that he didn't look happily taken by the way he was acting that night. Bobby replied and said "lol he's not" If people are unhappy in a relationship why do they stay in the relationship?
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Sometimes people stay for the kids.
Sometimes people stay, because they're afraid to be alone.
Sometimes people stay, because they are forced to.
And sometimes people stay, because they feel committed to the relationship and don't leave the moment it's not fun anymore. They treat a relationship like a rollercoaster and wait for the up that comes after a down.
Actually, Nick sounds exactly like my bf's friend. What I noticed after knowing him for a while is being a big flirt, smooth at small talking and giving good compliments means nothing. He constantly gives compliments to almost every guy and girl he meets. It's almost like a sickness, because he says someone looks good even though they look like shit. He means well, but I think I'd feel worse if I know I had a bad hair day and wore the only things left that are not in the laundry yet. And he listens to/reads books about 'the art of small talk' or 'how to make people like you'. I'm not kidding. And he continued to do all this WHILE he was in a HAPPY relationship, I don't want to know what he did when it went south.1
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