What are good standard introductory things to say? What could I say in speed dating? Without being boring and sounding like everyone else?
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A bar is easy. never use lines. "Hi, my name is XXX. I hope you don't mind but i thought id come over and introduce myself. How is your night going?"
Most women don't want lines, they want a conversation. Start one. If she says something like "fine" and looks away she isn't interested. Be polite. say "Ok, i am sorry to have bothered you." Dont be the asshole who gets shot down and turns to insults. In fact that act may just have them come back to talk to you.
Speed dating is harder. Go with name. Say nothing negative. Get out a few of your biggest interests. The idea if to quickly find someone with a bond you share. If she is laughing or smiling and enjoys the little conversation, ask for a hug just before time is up, thank her for her time. Create that little physical connection.0