Only hanging out when we are getting drunk?

We have been dating for a few years but just recently it seems like he only puts forth the effort to hang out if it involves getting drunk. We probably hang out once maybe twice sober a week...but he doesn't really try to come see me at work anymore or those kinda things. what's should I do and why is he doing this.


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  • If you feel like he's not putting enough effort into it, he may be losing interest - and even seeing you as more as a friend.

    If you care a lot about him I suggest talking to him about it, you need to talk for relantionships to work. He could have other reasons for this, but nothing will change unless you talk to him!

    Good luck!