How do you pursue someone who wants to go slow?

This guy I have been seeing wants to go slow but he text me to let me know that he thinks things are changing. He says I'm not pursuing him. I explained that we both agreed to take things slow but sometimes I feel like he is pushing me away bc of the things he says he has going on in his life. He says he's not pushing me away and that I'm just not pursuing him. I'm confused. What do u think he means? I don't want to be clingy or smother him while he has things going on. It hurts my feelings to hear that.


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  • Tell the guy to make up his fucking mind- you're not a toy.


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