So I met this girl in the summer, we talked, went on a date, basically we did everything but sex due to no condom, and since then haven't seen her because school has us busy, and her a lot. It's been about a month+, we talk here and there, we aren't really sure what we are, but we have this half assed relationship thing going, where she checks up on me if we go weeks w. o. talking or if I get paranoid of losing her and ask her something she tells me not to worry, or we need to communicate.
So this weekend, she's going to Vegas to celebrate a "Dirty Thirty", should I be worried.
I am very naive, I would like to think I can trust her, and that in the future when everything settles we can have something serious. Or should I just treat this girl like some hoe I'd fuck on the side or whenever she wants to see me, because I see her more than that, she doesn't seem to be loose, but she does enjoy going out A LOT. Bars, clubs, and stuff.
Am I stupid?
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Funny, I'm in a similar situation. I'm going to Vegas for my 21st with a bunch of friends, and I'm dating a guy but we aren't exactly official/in an exclusive relationship, though it's heading there. I wonder if he's thinking any of this lol. Anyway, technically she doesn't owe you anything since she's not your girlfriend; you guys aren't in a relationship. Can't really expect her to act like you are.
Having said that, I know for me, I'm really into the guy I'm dating and so I have no interest in other guys right now. I'll have a good time with my girls, but I'll probably be saying "Sorry, I have a boyfriend" a lot when I go out. It's not exactly true, but it's how I feel.
So, in your case, I think you should talk to her about this. If you want to be exclusive, bring it up.0