I have been dating a guy for about five months now, and we still haven't kissed yet (There was an indirect kiss, but i don't think that counts?). I REALLY like this guy, but I honestly have 0 practical dating experience. I know what to do in my head but I am unable to do anything when I'm with him in person. I'm so shy and nervous, even though I know he's a great guy and he likes me too.
I want to go to the next level with him, but I don't know what to do. I'm terrified that if I try to make the first move, I will screw it up somehow, and that I will freeze up. The last guy I dated (which was a much longer time ago than i care to mention) called me "Awkward girl" because of how i froze when he kissed me. I do NOT want that to happen again>.<
Poll: Do guys get turned off when a girl's brain goes Kaput after she's kissed?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
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i can honestly tell you this guy has some sort of interest in you (obivously 5 months) and with that said you have two options. tell him or show him. either one is good. trust me you are over thinking this. but if he hasn't made a move yet its either because he is unsure how you feel or is not ready for it. i put my money on him not knowing how you feel.
so here is my advice: since you are shy with not a lot of experience. catch him buy surprise and kiss him on the forehead. keep this up by kissing him on places near his lips. this may tempt him to "go for it more" or just be like "bitch kiss me already!!!"0