I have never asked a girl out, I have never paid for a date, never paid for sex, never pursued a girl or none of that. I used to laugh at the saps bending over backwards conforming to dating "norms" but hey I realize that most men aren't like me or can't do it like me so they have no choice but to conform lol but I wish them the best.
I have completely refused to conform to dating norms and its has worked wonders for me! Are there any guys out there that have done the same?
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Make sense. Machiavelli's definition of "Luck" is preparation plus opportunity. And that there is always opportunity. Looks like you're ready for when your opportunities come up. Good for you. Can't say I haven't followed some of the norms, especially since I'm in a relationship now. But i never paid for the girl when dating. The way I see it, my company should be enough. I shouldn't have to pay for attention/affection. It's worked out for me. But now that I have a gf, I don't mind following the norm in buying her a gift on her birthday or celebrating an anniversary with a date.0
If you don't do anything than what use are you? I think you're just being really selfish by deciding to do anything at all, taking the neutral path. You hurt more than you could ever imagine by taking this route. What about girls who like you and want to meet you? Do you just sit there and wait for her selfishly?0
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