A month ago I've met someone through the internet and a week later I met him in person. Ever since we have met, we have been going out to movies and lunch about 4 times in the past month. We talk on the phone often and text often as well. During these day and night outs, we will have moments where we just talk, and talk about the most serious things in life, and our past, and our future. We are bother entirely open with each other about everythin. Everything like how we feel, what made us feel bad, or what made us feel great when we are/were together.
We always seem to be on the same page. Whatever he thinks, I end up saying. Or whatever he says, I was thinking that or was just about to do what he said. Haha. We seem to be on the same frequency so to speak.
We are just friends and enjoy each others company. We have kissed before but we have decided to take it all slow so that we don't fall hard, or get hurt if anything happens.
I enjoy him entirely. I care about him a lot, as so as he does with me. But I feel love for him. Not in love with him, but I have love for him as sincerely caring about him and his actions and always wanting to be there for him. We are really close possibly how open we are with each other. But is it possibly to feel this way for someone like him? I've been infatuated with someone before, but this isn't infactuation, this is something else.
He makes me feel like everything will be okay. And the way he is makes me wanna better myself entirely as a person. It's weird.
Is this possible just a month and some change into meeting this person, to have love for them and care a LOT about them?
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You have just described what I call real love, same frequency, like you guys read each others minds without even needing to say or speak anything. Yes, I think what couples need to do more and which is very healthy is being open and communicate with each other a lot. So from my past experiences it is actually a possibility to feel the way you are now and a big reason to that is you guys have really succeeded in connecting with each other mentally unlike others which have only been looking for something physically. I think you guys should just keep on doing that until you guys feel ready for the physically, the longer the better, it sounds like you guys wouldn't need the physically part to be happy and that's the way true love should be. Physically speaking it will only last some time, but mentally can really last a lifetime. You guys might not know it, but I can on the outside from what I hear tell you, you both are in love with each other.2