The thing is I've been thinking about this guy for the past 3 years. We're never going to be together and I realize that and have moved on from that fantasy for the most part. But I feel like I will almost never fully get over my love for him.
I still think about him, but it's hard not to. We haven't seen each other for about 7 months now and I met this guy who I like and who is really easy to be around and I definitely like him but is it wrong for me to date him?
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This is a great question, which I struggle with in a somewhat similar fashion. I know someone that strongly feels that you must wait until you are over the last person before going on to the next. Others feel that the feeling of the last person fades faster when you put yourself out there and look for someone new. I don't have the answer to this question. I wonder it the answer is somewhere in between, though. If you can date without talking about the person you are trying to forget, or otherwise effecting your date, can that not be a healthy relationship?0