One time this guy I'm seeing told me "you really are beautiful" and then the other night when we were out to dinner he told me I exuded sex appeal, in an "obvious but still very subtle way." He didn't make any pervy remarks about my boobs or butt or anything, he just held my hands across the table a lot. We've got in a fight previous to this about defining what we are as he is nervous about relationships, and I told him this time that we still need to have that talk to avoid something bad happening and he said "oh I know." So, I mean, I want to have that talk I just need to make sure he's ready and I'm not sure he is. so far everything is good. I joked at the end of dinner saying "you love me" and he just smiled, I don't know what that means. by the way we've been seeing each other off and on (only off and on once) for about 2 years. what's he thinking? does he like me enough for a relationship?
- he wants a relationship he just needs to take it slowVote A
- he doesn't want a relationshipVote B