There's a guy who likes me and he's sweet and all.. but for some reason I'm just not feeling it. It's nothing to do with looks, because I don't go by looks.
He's sweet but there's just something about him that I don't know why I don't like. He calls me beautiful and other cute things, but I've also noticed we haven't had many actual conversations other than him calling me beautiful or something (I'm not complaining but I'm just saying). He's sweet and a chill guy but I just can't see us dating. He's messaging me now kind of randomly and talking about how "he was just thinking about how he's so sweet and always getting hurt and how he wants someone who won't hurt him because he won't hurt them" and sent "fun fact: I never broke up with a girl" it was kinda out of nowhere too..
I told him initially when we started talking (as friends) that I don't really do relationships and I just wanna have fun right now and he thanked me for being honest and said he fully understands.. But now I feel like he just isn't getting it :/
I feel so shallow, am I wrong for feeling so? I gave him a chance, I went to the movies with him and kept an open mind to it and we talked and stuff at the movies and in the car but even though I know he's a sweet guy I just can't see us dating.
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He threw his cards out too fast. he's showering you with kindness and compliments. There is no game. No challenge. Might sound stupid everyone wants somewhat of a chase.0