How do you look at her? Like you spend a night with her on the second date and yall just lay next to each other and go to slp, no sex and of course you tried a bit but she's just not easy. Would you consider her girlfriend material?
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Not having sex with a guy too soon is a good idea but not for the reasons you may think.
Waiting to have sex will not take a guy who is looking for sex and turn him into wanting you as a girlfriend. If he is out to bag and tag you, well, after a date or two without getting any, he will start losing interest, the calls and dates will diminish and that is that.
But, a guy who likes you for more than the physical possibilities, he is the guy who will have patience. He is having fun with you on other levels, he is open to the idea of having a girlfriend, and waiting to have sex is not a big deal. Also, by waiting, it gives a guy time to get to know you on a completely separate level than his physical attraction to you and it is important to give guys this time. Guys do not rush into knowing how they feel about you. It takes time.
So, waiting to have sex will help you differentiate between the guys who are really in to you and the guys who cannot go beyond seeing you as someone they want to have sex with and nothing else.4
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