We met online 2 weeks ago. we text and he calls me. We had our first date after two weeks texting and calling. We had dinner at a restaurant and talked and laughed and even mentioned places I've never been and told me that he'll take me we disnt kiss but he held my hand. And after our date. He told me that he'll visit me in my place but never mentioned when. now its been 4 days since our first date and i just heard from him just twice and didn't had a long conversation. But he's the one who texts first. He'll just text me "my big baby" or "hi baby" just stuffs like that. So i'll reply saying how was his day? Stuffs like that... And wait for his reply for loooong hours.
What does this mean? Does he not like me? Or keeping me as one of his options? Cause he still texts me sometimes... What should i do?
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This is really, really early in a relationship. It's not necessarily a case of keeping you an option at this point, it's probably too early even for that kind of thought. This is in the stage right after 'the pursuit worked', which is when they guy has to make some decisions about moving to the next stage.
He could be totally into the idea, but wants to figure out the pacing. Or he has things to do during the day... even committed long term relationships can have cases where they don't talk every day. So he is possibly trying to establish a precedent for 'we don't need to talk every day' before you become too accustomed to it, since it seems you are already expecting that despite only knowing the guys for two weeks.
Basically, it's way too early to be hitting a panic button. You need to take some time for yourself and make sure you are not putting too much pressure on this relationship.0
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